I LOVE YOU

I love you with a permanence
That endures the passing years.
I love you with a joyfulness
That subdues all doubts and fears.
I love you with an honesty
That was born within my heart.
I love you with the calm belief
That we will never part.
I love you with a confidence
No earthly force can sever.
I love you with the certainty
That I’ll cherish you forever.
I love you with the humbleness
Of one who has been blessed.
I love you with the reverence
Of all that word suggests.
I love you with a fervor
That time cannot reverse.
I love you with the truest love
That poets put to verse.
I love you because God loves u
Come enjoy this love of christ
With me.
Will love u till eternity if you
Accept Him today
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My Prince Charming Which later becomes Prince Harming

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When I first met him, he was like the prince charming I watched in Cinderella, his smile was like a charm. He smelled like an altar of roses, He was like the cutest guy I’ve ever met, He swept me off my foot when he could quote the scriptures like Apostle Paul, he was so vast in the scriptures, He was everything I ever dreamed of in a man! Alas! I was so eager and looked forward to the day he would ask me to be his, my dream came true when he looked into my eyes and said “I love you, can we take this friendship a step further, I want to make you the mother of my children, I promise you won’t regret it” without thinking about I gave him a yes I do, just like a little girl who got first position in her class I felt so proud, having a man like him to call mine. Little did I know my handsome Jewel needs to be broken, Just on a beautiful Thursday morning we were going out, I met this my longtime friend, I just flew at him and he hugged me, little did I know my price charming was angry, with excitement in me jumping to tell him about my friend the next thing I heard was a resounding slap on my cheek, he came back apologizing telling me it would not happen again. Love forgives, so I forgave him. Months later we got married it was like a big dream come through. Just 6months after my wedding my husband started beating the one time sweet guy I knew became a monster. As a Christian wife all I had to do was endure.
Singles, I’m sure you don’t want a story like hers, you have a whole lot of time to get it right, marriage is too long to endure, Brothers and sisters deal with those little foxes, we aint all perfect but we can be better. Create a marriage your kids will be proud of…… ‪#‎Onome Omodara Oluwabunmi speaks‬#

WHEN GOD’S IMAGE IS DEFACED, LIFE’S RELATIONSHIPS LOSE PURPOSE.

WHEN GOD’S IMAGE IS DEFACED, LIFE’S RELATIONSHIPS LOSE PURPOSE.
It is a tragedy that in much of today’s society the differences between man and woman are blurred and distorted. The pure, natural image of God is being destroyed. There is endless talk about women’s equality, but in practice women are abused and exploited more than ever before. In films, on television, in magazines, and on billboards the ideal woman (and increasingly, the ideal man) is portrayed as a mere sex object. Generally speaking, marriages in our society are no longer regarded as sacred. Increasingly they are seen as experiments or as contracts between two people who measure everything in terms of their own interests. When marriages fail, there is almost always the option of no-fault divorce, and after that a new attempt at marriage with a new partner. Many people no longer even bother to make promises of faithfulness; they just live together. Women who bear and raise children or stay married to the same husband are sometimes scorned. And even when their marriage is a healthy one, they are often seen as victims of oppression who need to be “rescued” from male domination. Children are often no longer treasured. In Genesis, God commanded, “Be fruitful and increase.” Today we avoid the “burden” of unwanted offspring by means of legalized abortion. Children are viewed as a bother; they are too expensive to be brought into the world, to be raised, to be given a college education. They are an economic strain on our materialistic lives. They are even too time-consuming to love. Is it any wonder that so many in our time have lost hope? That so many have given up on the possibility of enduring love? Life has lost its value; it has become cheap; most people no longer see it as a gift from God. Advances in biomedical engineering and in fetus screening techniques enable growing numbers of couples to choose an abortion for selfish reasons. Without God, life is absurd, and there is only darkness and the deep wound of separation from him. Despite the efforts of many dedicated individuals, the church today has failed miserably in grappling with this situation. All the more, each of us must go back to the beginning and ask ourselves once again, “Why did God create man and woman in the first place?” God created every person in his image, and he has set a specific task for every man, woman, and child on this earth, a task he expects us to accomplish. No one can disregard God’s purpose for his creation or for himself without suffering deep inner need (Ps. 7:14– 16). The materialism of our time has emptied life of moral and spiritual purpose. It hinders us from seeing the world with awe and wonder, and it hinders us from seeing our true task. The sickness of soul and spirit brought about by consumerism has eaten so deeply into our conscience that it is no longer able to mirror good and evil clearly. Yet there is still a deep-seated need in each of us that makes us long for goodness. We will find healing only if we believe firmly that God created us and that he is the giver of life, love, and mercy. As we read in the third chapter of the Gospel of John, “God so loved the world that he gave his only son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God sent his son into the world, not to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through him.”

SEX, GOD AND RELATIONSHIPS

Everywhere today, people are searching for lasting and meaningful relationships. The myth of romance continues to be taken for granted by millions, and a new generation of young men and women has accepted the belief that sexual freedom is the key to fulfillment. But as desperately as people want to believe in the sexual revolution of the last few decades, it is clear to many of them that something has gone terribly wrong. Instead of bringing freedom, the sexual revolution has left countless wounded and isolated souls. As we face the great anguish around us, it is more important than ever for all of us, young and old, to consider the direction of our lives and ask ourselves where we are headed. The twenty-first century heralds the loss of the clear teachings of the Old and New Testaments on marriage and the relationship of the sexes. We have turned against God and rebelled against his order of creation, and we have justified our rebellion with human arguments. We have ignored the words of Jesus and scorned the voice of the Spirit. But we have found neither freedom nor fulfillment. As a mentor, I have counseled many people over the years, especially singles. For many of them, the sexual sphere is not an area of joy but one of frustration, confusion, and even despair. People look for unity of heart and soul with one another, but they are so blinded by the notion of romantic love that their deepest longings remain obscured. They know that marriage and sexual union is a gift from God; that it should be the most intimate and rewarding relationship a man and a woman can share. But they wonder why it has become the source of such loneliness and pain for them and for so many others. I am no social scientist. But if the findings of recent studies have made anything clear it is this: the fallout caused by our culture’s acceptance of casual sex is socially devastating. More than half of all marriages in the United States fail. Almost forty percent of America’s children live in different houses than their biological fathers. Poverty, violent crime, delinquency, promiscuity, alcohol and drug abuse, mental illness, and suicide are all rooted in the breakdown of the family and the erosion of the marriage bond. At the same time, those who save sexual activity until marriage (though their numbers are dwindling) are far less likely to have an affair or divorce, and those who commit themselves to one lifelong partner lead happier lives.1 While current trends point to continuing decay, there are encouraging signs that people are beginning to call into question the thrills of cheap sex and the seeming ease of uncommitted love. This is especially true among “Gender’s.” There is an increased yearning among young people to find genuine relationships and to build secure homes, giving renewed hope that a two-parent family is still possible. Again and again I have seen that when people are willing to surrender their lives to Jesus, they are able to find a way out of their unhappiness. Once people have the courage and humility to face his call to repentance, he can bring them lasting freedom and happiness. Jesus brings true revolution. He is the original source of love, because he is Love itself. His teaching is neither a matter of prudishness nor of permissiveness: he offers his followers an entirely different way. He brings a purity that liberates us from sin and leads to the possibility of a completely new life. There is very little in today’s culture that nurtures or protects the new life that Jesus wants to give us. People talk incessantly about the importance of committed marriages and wholesome family life, but how many of us are willing to take action to make these values a concrete reality? Many of us are tempted to blame society for the influences that corrupt us. But what about us so-called Christians? How many of us are ready to unplug the television set and take a hard look at our own marriages and relationships and our personal lives? How many of us actually support the brothers and sisters around us in the daily struggle for purity? How many of us stick out our necks to confront the sin in each other’s lives? How many of us are really accountable? There is tremendous pain among those who claim to be followers of Christ: broken families, battered wives, neglected and abused children, and sinful relationships. Yet instead of an outcry, there is indifference. When will we wake up and realize that our apathy is destroying us? More than ever, we need to come back to an understanding of the church as a living body of committed members who share life in practical deeds of love. But we must start with ourselves first and then see where we can encourage those around us. We need to know our youth well enough to be able to guide them as they seek relationships and lifetime commitments; we need to provide ongoing support for the marriages around us; we need to work for healing when our brothers or sisters stumble or fall – and accept their help when we ourselves have fallen. Most of all, we must show the world that the unique teachings of Jesus and his apostles are the only answer to the spirit of our time. That is why I have put together this little book. I am neither a biblical scholar nor a professional therapist, and I am fully aware that most of what I have written is completely contrary to popular wisdom. But I do feel the urgent need to share my certainty that Jesus’ call to a life of love, purity, honesty, and commitment is our only hope.
This is not only meant as a personal book – it comes out to bless the life of the church community I serve. My hope is that all of us – all men and women of our time – might stop to reconsider God’s purpose for sex and marriage. Sadly, too many people today have simply given up on the possibility of a pure life. They have bought into the myth of sexual “liberation” and tried to live with its disappointments, and when their relationships fall apart, they explain away their failures. They fail to see what a tremendous gift purity is. All the same, I believe that deep in every heart there is a yearning for unclouded relationships and for a love that lasts. It takes courage and self-discipline to really live a different way, but it is possible. Wherever there is a faithful church – a community of people who are committed to living in genuine and honest relationships – there is help and hope for every person and every marriage.
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LEARNING PROCESS OF MAN

Someone shared this with me. It blessed me so much that I couldn't help rebroadcasting.
~ Bright.

If  you will take the time to read these. I promise you'll come  away with an enlightened perspective. The subjects covered  affect us all, on a daily basis:
   
They're  written by Andy Rooney, a man who had the gift of saying so  much with so few words.  .........Enjoy.........


I've  learned ...That  the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly  person.

I've  learned ....  That when you're in love, it shows. 

I've  learned ....  That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!'  makes my day.

I've  learned ....  That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the  most peaceful feelings in the  world.

I've  learned ....  That being kind is more important than being  right.

I've  learned ....  That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

I've  learned ....  That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the  strength to help him in some other way. 

I've  learned ....  That no matter how serious your life requires you to be,  everyone needs a friend to act goofy with. 

I've  learned ....  That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a  heart to understand.

I've  learned ....  That simple walks with my father around the block on summer  nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an  adult.

I've  learned ....  That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets  to the end, the faster it goes.

I've  learned ....  That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask  for.

I've  learned ....  That money doesn't buy class.

I've  learned ....  That it's those small daily happenings that make life so  spectacular.

I've  learned ....  That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be  appreciated and loved.

I've  learned ....  That to ignore the facts does not change the  facts.

I've learned ....  That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only  letting that person continue to hurt  you.

I've  learned ....  That love, not time, heals all  wounds.

I've  learned ....  That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to  surround myself with people smarter than I  am.

I've  learned ....  That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a  smile..

I've  learned ....  That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I've  learned ...  That life is tough, but I'm tougher. 

I've  learned ....  That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the  ones you miss.

I've  learned ....  That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock  elsewhere.

I've  learned ....  That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one  more time before she passed away.

I've  learned ....  That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because  tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I've  learned .....  That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your  looks.

I've  learned .....  That when your newly born grandchild holds your little  finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for  life.

I've  learned ....  That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all  the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.

I've  learned ....  That the less time I have to work with, the more things I  get done.

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DIVINE CONCEPT: The Power of Focus

DIVINE CONCEPT: The Power of Focus: One of the more important points I have made in writing about in most of my articles has been the idea that you really do create your o...

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The Power of Focus

One of the more important points I have made in writing about in most of my articles has been the idea that you really do create your own life and your own reality.
I know this idea has become a kind of personal growth cliche that many of us have heard over and over.
Many people, after continuing to experience the same old ups and downs and personal dramas over many years, get to the point where they dismiss this idea as charming but useless - or just plain wrong.
"If I'm creating this, then I'm certainly not doing it on purpose," they say. "It sure seems like this is HAPPENING to me, rather than that I'm creating it."
They just assume that it's all because "this and this are going on for me, and I have no control over it, and anyone who thinks I'm creating this doesn't understand what I'm going through."
Essentially, they are resigning themselves to be a victim of their circumstances.
We live in a universe of infinite complexity and many forces - way too many to keep track of - operate on us. Yes, it is true that we are NOT in control of everything that happens, because we are not in control of most of those infinite other parts of the universe.
In fact, the only thing you have total and complete control over is...

....YOUR OWN MIND.

That is, if you learn how to exercise it.
Luckily, this one thing - your mind - that you do have control over gives you tremendous power.
By exercising control over your mind, you can get the rest of those infinite other parts of the universe to begin to march in formation.
The person who says, "If I'm creating this, it certainly isn't on purpose," is right. They are not creating what is happening to them "on purpose."
Who would purposely create failure, or bad relationships, or any other suffering? As I said in Principle #6, you can only do something that is not good for you, that is harmful to you, if you do it unconsciously. This means if you are creating something you don't want, you must be doing so unconsciously.
Your mind is running on automatic pilot, based on "software" (unconscious programming) installed when you were too young to know any better, by parents, teachers, friends, the media, and other experiences and influences.
The key is to become more conscious, more aware... to get yourself off automatic pilot. Once you do this, you stop creating all the dramas and other garbage you don't want in your life.
How do you do this? One way, of course, is to use the priority program, because listening to Holosync increases your ability to be consciously aware.
As you continue with the program, doing this becomes easier and more automatic. That "watcher" part of you becomes stronger and stronger, until it is watching over everything, and with that degree of conscious awareness, it is pretty difficult to create anything that is not beneficial for you.
You can help things along, however, by remembering and using a very important piece of wisdom. It's the fact that whatever you focus on manifests as reality in your life.

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Thoughts of Life

You may not be able to choose your lot in life, but you can choose how to handle your lot because a man’s countenance tells a lot about him than his cloths or wears.

When you are surfing and there is a big wave coming your way, you can choose to either catch it or avoid it or be overwhelmed by it, rise above your problem and ride them to victory rather than letting them drown you, life is a school, life is in phases and men are in sizes.

Those who learn to love and help others graduate with honors, God can do anything for you if you simply give him the chance and honesty, a kind word spoken in love lift the spirit and refreshes the soul but envies dry the bone.

Forget trying to figure out what will bring you happiness, but try to make others happy and then happiness will find you.

If you want the key to someone’s heart, accept them and love them for whom they are.

If you let pressure dictate your life and chase out all the enjoyment, it’s like telling a fool to dictate your schedule and forbid you enjoying your family and friends.

Love is saying you are sorry, showing faith and trust in someone who is shawn by others will often gain you a loyal friend who has faith and trust in you.

It’s better to try and fail than never to try at all.

Be thankful for what you have and not sad about what you do have.

Boredom is something we all allow over and over again and from time to time but if we look through the binoculars of faith and optimisms we can see beyond the cloud and catch a glimpse of the mysteries of life which are as numerable as the stars.

Change the things that need changing, leave other things that don’t need changing and ask God to help you know the difference.

If you can’t see the stars twinkles in the night in the sky, it doesn’t mean they have disappeared they are just behind the blanket of clouds and you will see them shine again.

Peace, righteousness, fairness, justice, goodness, mercy and love will cover the whole world in burst tomorrow when the entire world will be free from hatred towards each other.

Progress in life, business or any project comes through taking initiative and continuing to press on with new strategies, concept and plans, the original momentum isn’t enough but progress will fail unless you give yourself some inspiration and fill of fresh ideas. 

BALANCING WORK AND FAMILY

The big question out now is how to balance work with family where everyone feels there are too much to do in just little time, they feel their relationship, family and children are suffering because of the little time they created for them because of work and they don’t know what to do about it. Because of this precarious economic time and the thought of economic meltdown, they are thinking of holding on to their jobs and these reduce the quality of their home life. The issue of balance is not going to go away but going to be critical for the rest of your life If it is not maintained.

The change of work over and over again will not bring balancing but a change in the Mind, Heart and Attitude of the individual. Following the Philosophy, Psychology, Religion and Metaphysical about life I have come to discover that how well you are doing in life is determined by the level of your happiness. How happy you are is the best indicator that your life is going well or not, you can’t make any one happy if you are not, someone once said you cannot help someone who is poor by becoming poor so you cannot help people to be happy by being unhappy yourself because you can’t give what you don’t have. Resent research shows that children are better off with single parent that is happy rather than two parents that is sad and nagging. Nothing good comes out of something bad.

Before you could really say you want to balance your life, you have to first sit down to reflect your life, to know who you are and you begin with your values;

Ø  What are those things that are really important to me?

Ø  What are the things I care about?

Ø  Why am i doing what am doing?

People don’t get the results they wanted because they've stopped thinking and asking themselves these questions, but they get frecktic  activity they get busier and busier with things with more less value but have forgotten that the ability to think is the most powerful tools they have to ensure a balance and a happy life. Some people had to have a massive failure in life before they can think some life threatening issues while some will have their marriage collapse before they wake up some people needed to be given a hot slap on their face just to call them to order. You need to know that the people in your life are the most valuable thing you have, some parents go the long way to die for their children but dyeing for them is not the issue but can you live for your children? Anything your mind can conceive you can achieve.

Sit down to think and design a perfect life style for yourself, your family and work from dawn to dusk, Monday to Friday, List out your priorities, how you will like to live, stay with your spouse and design a dream life like where would you decided to live, what would you like to be doing, how many hours a day would i like to be doing it, what would you like to be doing in your leisure time, if your company or industry destroys completely thereby leaving you out on the street what will you do?, if you have the chance of choosing your life time work what would you like to do and who would you like to do it with?, how much would you like to be earning, what are the activities you did like to engage in and the people you did like to associate with and especially the time you will like to spend with people that are close to you. Once you have draft out how you want your life style, take a look at where you are now and draw out 3 boxes and name the first one now, the second 5 years’ time and the last future. Ask yourself what you can do to get what I want within the next five years. The best way to predict a future is to create it, the best way to ensure that you are where you want to be in five years is to design it and begin building it step by step and day by day and you will find out you are already where you want to be after five years.

Keep working about your dream list, keep thinking about your idea life and know that all you want to do is right there before you and the opportunity will materialize in no time with all this you need to realize you have to spend much time with your families and relationships. Let me share my little story with you. When I was given Admission into FUTA I never thought of contesting for any position at the student union level until my 200level when my sense of purpose begin to manifest, and before that I have being helping people with relationship issue and holding a couple myself. This made me believe even if I get married I can never have problem in marriage because I fully understand what it takes to be in a relationship or marriage but I was wrong, I was successful in my other relationship because there wasn’t much responsibility committed to me. When the time of our election was announced the work became tensed because I still have a lot to cover before the Election Day which made me to neglect some of my responsibility. To my ought most surprise I lost everything; my relationship, my ambition, spiritual until I got to accept that maturity does not come with age but the acceptance of responsibility and fulfilling it. Life taught me a lesson in a hard way that I will never forget because of my imbalance, there is lot of people out there who had suffered the same fate I did but I want to spare you the pain like Paul the Apostle said those who marry will face many troubles in this life and I want to spare you of this (1corinthians 7:28b).

Here are the keys to balancing: it’s simple but it’s not easy to do it’s easy to explain but very complex to practice.

Do two things: Work and Family and if you are still single replace the word family with relationships, you must keep your life and relationship balance by allocating ambient time to spend with other people, if you don’t you will tend  to go to extreme and become narrow in your focus or become critical in your behavior. In dividing your time between work and family this is the solution I found out working for me and some others, imagine you have a picture of water and you have two large glasses and several small glasses, now imagine that this picture is a matter of time you have each day or each week, imaging that the two large glasses represent your work and family life and smaller glasses represent all the other activities you are engaged in. Think of filling the two large glasses which are work and family to the brim and then allocating whatever water is left among other  glasses based on their importance to you, the big mistake that many people make is that they allocate there water which is their time to work and many to the other small glasses and put what is left over to the large glasses that represent the family, very often what is left over is not enough to fill the glass and that is not enough to fulfill your responsibilities and you ask in dismay where do all the time go. Develop the habit of working all the time you work, don’t waste time when you are on a job if you work from 9am-5pm immediately you close for the day don’t stop and start wasting time on the way. The time you spend socializing at work as to be taken away if you really have a work to do since work time is hard time and family time is soft time your natural tendency will take the hard time you need a way from the soft time, when you waste your time socializing at work you are actually taking time away from your family by spending time with the other person. The question you have to ask is this what you want to do? Is it more important that I spend more time with people in my work or with the people I love or with anyone else in the world? If you really much care about your family you will work all the time you work and when you are at home be with your family one hundred percent of your time, don’t make the mistake of  just being physically present while you are busy with the television or reading the newspaper or even worse working on stuff from the office or on telephone but you need to be there with your family for them to get the full benefit of your present, they need your focus and undivided attention, they need you to look at them in the eye and talk to them to ask them questions and they listen to you and joke with them.

Use quality time at home and quantity time at work and the key to happiness is for you not miss them up

With this little piece I believe we should be able to balance our work and family….. Love you all and hoping to see better families and relationships……..DIVINE.

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